We spent most of today in intense discussion. That discussion involved emotion, upset, hurt and regret. More importantly that discussion involved clarification of misunderstandings and misinterpretations. It involved authentic expression of our present met and unmet needs.

Twelve hours after we started the fight/ argument/communication we wound up agreeing to disagree and we resolved to unconditionally accept each other. We also expressed fully our love for each other and our commitment to strengthen our marriage. At the end of the day we both felt lighter and happier.

And that’s how we spent our 21st wedding anniversary. We now start year number 22 tomorrow with no past baggage. ❤